court

Court sucked. Ex-husbands attorney argued that ex-husband has over paid child support by $24,000 and he wants me court ordered to pay it back....but they're willing to forgive the $24,000 if I agree to no child support. I was stunned& I could barely contain my anger. The judge seemed irritated and said "we" don't have the time to resolve all this stuff today. So another court date has been set. In other words, nothing has been resolved, i'll end up paying my attorney twice as much as I was expecting, exhusbands attorney is milking him, exhusband and his attorney are both willing to twist facts.....................I feel like a loser for even being a part of this whole process. I've always prided myself in being able to handle this crap between me, my exhusband, and his attorney. Now I'm a part of this whole dysfunctional, crazy, system. It's very easy to be sucked into the anger trap and fight over stuff that was never even an issue.........it's perpetuated in part by the attorneys. Because more than anyone else, it benefits them. I'm scared, worried, angry, frustrated, and in many ways I feel defeated.