tuesday

I went to the cemetery yesterday. Dad and sister were there. We ended up sitting at moms grave and chit chatting for a couple of hours.
Dad has lost 25 pounds since mom died, and he's not sleeping well. To boot he has a stomach virus. I went to the store yesterday with sister and bought him some soup, jello, and Gatorade..........We've encouraged him to go to the hospice grief support group. I doubt he'll ever go. I worry about him.
Sister and her husband have 100 acres of beautiful lush land out in the county......a home away from home.......... last Thanksgiving mom said how nice it would be to have Thanksgiving dinner there, outside under a tree. We decided that this year we would have Thanksgiving dinner there in moms honor and that we would dedicate one of the ponds, a beautiful lively pond stocked with gold fish to mom. Many people in our family called mom "Me Me"......so we will name the pond "Me Me's Pond."
I didn't get to the yard yesterday. I hoping that today I will get some yard work done!