monday

I spent my weekend at work.
It was quiet.
My patients missed me while I
was gone. They told me so.
Made me smile.

I called daughter in law to be the other
morning. She was crying, stressed over wedding planning.
She said originally her and son had planned on eloping
or having a very small ceremony in the mountains of Tenn.
It was becoming something way different than what she had
imagined.
Now it makes since why she was all over the map
when it came to making plans.
Son said the only reason they haven't eloped
is because he didn't want to disappoint me.
I felt a little disappointed. But I didn't say that to him.
I mean originally I had hoped for a small, intimate wedding, and
I was looking forward to a mother son dance.
But when we checked out the first wedding venue, and after talking to the bride to be's mom
I knew it would be anything but that.........and then I got caught up
in her vision.
But quite honestly, more than anything I just want
them to have the ceremony that they have hoped for.......and that's what I told him.............
but I also told him I want to be there, no matter where or how they did it.
So they have decided, for now,
to have a ceremony in Gatlinburg Tenn with their parents and siblings present.
Her parents are supportive of their new plans.