I was surprised to hear from her.
She didn't call after boyfriend had his surgery or in the weeks that followed.
I had text her a few times during that time to check and see how things were going with her. No calls from her.
So it surprised me to hear from her. Even more so that she was calling for money.
I talked about it to boyfriend.
I wanted to do the right thing.
In the end I decided I'm not loaning money anymore, unless it's to my children........and they have never asked.
I told her no and I feel relieved.
I just shaved boyfriends head.
He didn't lose all of his hair to chemo ( not that he had much to start with) but it did get really thin. Especially his mustache. He looks like a 14 year old who is trying to grow face hair. So anyway, I just shaved his head and trimmed his eyebrows. :O) I like his shaved head!
I think we're sticking close to home today. Boyfriend has an appointment with the oncologist and is then coming home. I'm not going to the appointment. I'm going to stay home and put on a pot of beef stew for supper and do a few chores around the house.
We ran to the store yesterday for salt for the snow expected tomorrow. I'm hoping we don't get slammed because my car is due at the dealer for recall work........plus I worry about my family out there on the road when the weather is bad.
The rest of today, after chores are out of the way I'm going to work on a painting
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Hum, I guess you could spread things on his head and lick it like a lollipop.
lol,billy.
you goof ball!
Neither a borrower nor a lender be,
For loan oft loses both itself and friend,
And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry.
Hamlet Act 1, scene 3, 75–77
I guess I've really worn down my husbandry skills. Ha!
Hope everything is going ok with you and family.
I was feeling a little guilty for not loaning the money until I read the quote from Hamlet!So thanks!
I hope all is well with you and your family too!
I figured out years ago that if someone asks you for money to not loan it to them unless you are willing to look at it as a gift if you don't get it back, that way you are not going to be pissed at them if you don't get it back.
I agree with that, Billy...
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